wendyhuse
1.19 am
got back
drinks and laughter and chatting with the cousin xx
wanted to stay longer but as usual there are annoying men
who will always try to chat girls who are without men
in these sort of places ...
wanted to go out ,,,
to feel free and to just be normal..
really stressed from work and hoping this week will finish quickly ...
was reading a blog and a write up and thought well,it wont hurt to make a comment..
sugrbabies do fall inlove, where there was a show in America talking about similar
situation as us,
all i can say is,sod all those who think we are machines who cant feel anything!
what is this?
all things i've read about these other Experienced Sugarbabies,
i cant blame them as it is a means to an end,
but it greys the area of those who do hard work and maybe feel something else for the SD's out there
aside from the cash they provide...
in th U.S it seems like all everytone is looking for is $$$$$ and robotic way of life..
But yes in this article is, even Sugarbabies are not immune to human feelings such as falling inlove thats the one reason it separates us from the animal kingdom...
Wrote an opinion to it,i dont know if SB' sout there will like it,
and commented on another Sd's comment about having that special kiss with someone that special moment..
it really interests me as i have the same expirience...and still does..
@stormcat
i know what you mean about that special kiss…
its about the right moment the right person and the right place,
i remember one i had last summer,i am a hopeless romantic and i know it is highly unlikely
that i would make the first move on a first date..specially in this circumstance,but i did and never regretted doing it one bit x and i know i would never forget that moment ever infact xxx
p.s. it think it surprised him a bit that i suddenly kissed him xxx
i loved kissing him a stranger,with those blue dark eyes that evening...
when the memory comes to my mind up to now,it still makes me smile...
but how many does feel this way as me?
well,i dont think there is of many us who are plenty in this Sugar bowl world we are in...
or many who never said anything,maybe embarassed to admit that they do love their SD's
and maybe didnt want to do anything about it?
but yes,i am one of those rare SB's,who got very lucky and was found by the most loving Sd
For the other Question that was posted on that blog;
Is it all for money or Love?
My answer was..
money is essential to make a relationship work,to start something infact,
but in my case i wont dream of saying to my darling Sd these words 'I WANT'
because there are feelings there involved,and i cant imagine it now to be any other way...
he will give me what he thinks he will be happy to give,
not something i need to ask or force him with?
one SD said, well i have an SB who i am willing to spend my money anyway..
if it was a wife she will spend my money anyway...
i laughed when i read through,but it was all honest opinions of people and were not ashamed to admit them...
to continue my answer,at the height of how i fel for my Darling Sd,even tonight,when men in the regular scene of chat uplines,i was thinking these other men seemed -so unsuitable for me,pathetic even...more fake than what i have...
but even if these are regular joe's or another Sd,by chance,like this man trying to chat us up tonight,
saying to me,that he is a man who has all these things...
i seemed too direct and rude i know...
'good for you,but i am happy on what i have and i dont have,and what you have is yours,
goodluck to you,i hope you will buy love with those!' lol!
cousin j, laughed when she heard what i said,
but the guy was a bit shocked i think,
well maybe sometimes these men needs to be put in their place.
but still this man asked;
well are you single?
i answered, No
man: so are you married?
me: no
man:so you are single then!
me:(getting really annoyed now) NO!!!
man:well i dont understand what you are trying o say?
me: dont excpet you to!
how do i explain to this flop minded man that i am infact a Sugarbaby
????
he was pushing for my number so this time i said,
sorry,not interested,i am not single,so please leave us alone?
man: oh ok i get it,maybe you are a lesbian!!
my god,did i laugh out loud haha!
so,this reminds me on how silly the real dating world is sometimes,
but why did i show no interest at this?
because,even if i am a Sugarbaby,i am still human and had fallen inlove with my Sugardaddy,
and it wont take a rocket scientist to know,that even if a man now would say to me or another Sd say he has gazillions in the bank,i am one of those who is happy to be with the Sd who i love and care about,
that is because my gold digger thinking SB fellows,
you may think you can sleep with that pot Sd every night he wants to,
with his unsightly facial hair with those podgy cheeks protruding,
dreading the fact that he will kiss you rather than anticipating it,
always thinking of the time that you will find another one that you will actually even like,
but staying because of few ££'s
not thanks for me,i maybe an Sb
but i also want to be happy...
and the fact remains that...
Money will still not buy you Love xxx
i know what you mean about that special kiss…
its about the right moment the right person and the right place,
i remember one i had last summer,i am a hopeless romantic and i know it is highly unlikely
that i would make the first move on a first date..specially in this circumstance,but i did and never regretted doing it one bit x and i know i would never forget that moment ever infact xxx
p.s. it think it surprised him a bit that i suddenly kissed him xxx
i loved kissing him a stranger,with those blue dark eyes that evening...
when the memory comes to my mind up to now,it still makes me smile...
but how many does feel this way as me?
well,i dont think there is of many us who are plenty in this Sugar bowl world we are in...
or many who never said anything,maybe embarassed to admit that they do love their SD's
and maybe didnt want to do anything about it?
but yes,i am one of those rare SB's,who got very lucky and was found by the most loving Sd
For the other Question that was posted on that blog;
Is it all for money or Love?
My answer was..
money is essential to make a relationship work,to start something infact,
but in my case i wont dream of saying to my darling Sd these words 'I WANT'
because there are feelings there involved,and i cant imagine it now to be any other way...
he will give me what he thinks he will be happy to give,
not something i need to ask or force him with?
one SD said, well i have an SB who i am willing to spend my money anyway..
if it was a wife she will spend my money anyway...
i laughed when i read through,but it was all honest opinions of people and were not ashamed to admit them...
to continue my answer,at the height of how i fel for my Darling Sd,even tonight,when men in the regular scene of chat uplines,i was thinking these other men seemed -so unsuitable for me,pathetic even...more fake than what i have...
but even if these are regular joe's or another Sd,by chance,like this man trying to chat us up tonight,
saying to me,that he is a man who has all these things...
i seemed too direct and rude i know...
'good for you,but i am happy on what i have and i dont have,and what you have is yours,
goodluck to you,i hope you will buy love with those!' lol!
cousin j, laughed when she heard what i said,
but the guy was a bit shocked i think,
well maybe sometimes these men needs to be put in their place.
but still this man asked;
well are you single?
i answered, No
man: so are you married?
me: no
man:so you are single then!
me:(getting really annoyed now) NO!!!
man:well i dont understand what you are trying o say?
me: dont excpet you to!
how do i explain to this flop minded man that i am infact a Sugarbaby
????
he was pushing for my number so this time i said,
sorry,not interested,i am not single,so please leave us alone?
man: oh ok i get it,maybe you are a lesbian!!
my god,did i laugh out loud haha!
so,this reminds me on how silly the real dating world is sometimes,
but why did i show no interest at this?
because,even if i am a Sugarbaby,i am still human and had fallen inlove with my Sugardaddy,
and it wont take a rocket scientist to know,that even if a man now would say to me or another Sd say he has gazillions in the bank,i am one of those who is happy to be with the Sd who i love and care about,
that is because my gold digger thinking SB fellows,
you may think you can sleep with that pot Sd every night he wants to,
with his unsightly facial hair with those podgy cheeks protruding,
dreading the fact that he will kiss you rather than anticipating it,
always thinking of the time that you will find another one that you will actually even like,
but staying because of few ££'s
not thanks for me,i maybe an Sb
but i also want to be happy...
and the fact remains that...
Money will still not buy you Love xxx
